Working Mom and Her Partner
Kenyataannya: 8 jam, 4 hari dalam seminggu,ummi harus rela ninggalin Hanuun:-(Sedih dan khawatir, manusiawi, right?!
I lose some of her precious times on her growth. Whereas, she usually performs morning-afternoon activities actively, let say: playing, taking a bath, taking a nap, reading story and picture books and others. The sad thing:-(, when I'm back at about 2 or more p.m. she's regularly taking a nap. What fun for me (on those 4 days, Monday to Thursday) is playing with her in the evening till night before she goes to sleep. Those four days for me are still like an affliction.
On the other hand, I never regret that I'm a worker -teacher- (working mom then) . Though I wish was always there and with her, yet I also can't imagine how my life would be if I have no place and chance to apply my knowledge I had learned. Furthermore, teaching is a pleasure and necessity for me and for the family too.
Pleased and proud of myself if only I could grasp that roles, being a mom and worker as well. And succeed in becoming a mother and teacher; and I'm now walking reaching that dream:-)
to Hanuun, Ummi believes someday you will understand why and what for ummi works. You will do perceive how heavy my heart was to leave you for working. Of course, hopefully one day you will be proud of me (ngarep ya, nak;-))
Then, making all of it come real; it's undeniable that I need someone to assist me doing all things at home while I'm in working time e.g. taking care of my daughter, washing clothes and plates, cleaning the house and etc. Actually I'm still with my parents right now (this is a luck for me) and my mother ever said that she was willing to do all without any servant. I never agree that opinion for I never want to make may own-mother exhausted.
Well roger, we've got to have another settlement. I still remember, that day was my fourth day coming back from Bandung (my husband was still here too) when one of my relative -teh Ros- (thanks to her) told us she had friend who need job. And as we said "YES" we need, she immediately called her to meet my family. Alhamdulilah, she came at the very right time. She's with us from 7 a.m. to 2 or 3 p.m. A young woman named Asmi, we call her teteh Asmi is here to help us.
Today, she has worked for us for more than one month.
to teteh Asmi, I wanna say: You aren't a maid or servant for me...you're my friend, my sister, my partner. I hope everything will be ok for unlimited time, feel at your own here and with my family. I appreciate you more than the salary I give to you.
I feel abysmally:-( found that thus far, you still need to learn nurturing my daughter. I'm SSSAAADDD, that you're not able yet to be Hanuun's friend to play and learn. You seldom chat and chattering with Hanuun. And you -after all this long time- are not close yet with Hanuun. I hoped much on you at first and now I'm depressed:-( but still expecting tomorrow everything will change better. I don't want to think "HOW IF tomorrow will be the same" now, I still put my hope on you, teteh Asmi^_^ especially when I remember your statement that you like and feel well be with us. Let's do better things then...
On the other hand, I never regret that I'm a worker -teacher- (working mom then) . Though I wish was always there and with her, yet I also can't imagine how my life would be if I have no place and chance to apply my knowledge I had learned. Furthermore, teaching is a pleasure and necessity for me and for the family too.
Pleased and proud of myself if only I could grasp that roles, being a mom and worker as well. And succeed in becoming a mother and teacher; and I'm now walking reaching that dream:-)
to Hanuun, Ummi believes someday you will understand why and what for ummi works. You will do perceive how heavy my heart was to leave you for working. Of course, hopefully one day you will be proud of me (ngarep ya, nak;-))
Then, making all of it come real; it's undeniable that I need someone to assist me doing all things at home while I'm in working time e.g. taking care of my daughter, washing clothes and plates, cleaning the house and etc. Actually I'm still with my parents right now (this is a luck for me) and my mother ever said that she was willing to do all without any servant. I never agree that opinion for I never want to make may own-mother exhausted.
Well roger, we've got to have another settlement. I still remember, that day was my fourth day coming back from Bandung (my husband was still here too) when one of my relative -teh Ros- (thanks to her) told us she had friend who need job. And as we said "YES" we need, she immediately called her to meet my family. Alhamdulilah, she came at the very right time. She's with us from 7 a.m. to 2 or 3 p.m. A young woman named Asmi, we call her teteh Asmi is here to help us.
Today, she has worked for us for more than one month.
to teteh Asmi, I wanna say: You aren't a maid or servant for me...you're my friend, my sister, my partner. I hope everything will be ok for unlimited time, feel at your own here and with my family. I appreciate you more than the salary I give to you.
I feel abysmally:-( found that thus far, you still need to learn nurturing my daughter. I'm SSSAAADDD, that you're not able yet to be Hanuun's friend to play and learn. You seldom chat and chattering with Hanuun. And you -after all this long time- are not close yet with Hanuun. I hoped much on you at first and now I'm depressed:-( but still expecting tomorrow everything will change better. I don't want to think "HOW IF tomorrow will be the same" now, I still put my hope on you, teteh Asmi^_^ especially when I remember your statement that you like and feel well be with us. Let's do better things then...
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